It’s all those good things you have in you. The love, the wisdom, the generosity, the selflessness, the patience. The patience ! At 3 A. M. When everyone’s awake because Ibrahim is sick and he can’t find the bathroom and he’s just puked all over Katki’s bed. When you blink, when you blink ! And it’s 5 :30 and it’s time to get up again and you know you’re going to be tired all day, all week, all your fucking life. And you’re thinking what happened to Greece ? What happened to swimming naked off the coast of Greece ? And you have to be willing to make the family out of whatever you have.